john

a big, loud day

this morning i thought we should have bought flowers. then i remembered we have a garden full of them, dur. Today was James’ confirmation at church. It’s that old Lutheran thing, middle school kids take classes after they’re too old for Sunday School, and then right before high school they finish, and there’s a special

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the first one

with my grandpa is John Kenneth. That’s Kenneth with him in his arms. John is Jay’s mom’s dad. He was born on a June morning a looong time ago, with long legs and reddish-gold hair, way back in the 70s. (The little kids find that funny, like it’s so long ago it’s unimaginable.) the three

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spring

something from ten years ago: We made it through the winter! It was long and dark with deep cold and snow, but finally spring is here. The Mississippi is overflowing its banks in the city right now. Yesterday, stuck on a bridge in traffic we could see way down the river, our view unobstructed by

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grace

This girl has it. She’s bold and graceful and openly loves without reservation. She’s honest, yeah even to the point of bluntness now and then, plus she’s also fairly hilarious. I’m so glad to know her. She came up with the idea it was time to get baptized, so Sunday was the day. (Usually it’s

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attention getter

ham it up, you cuties Okay, I heard it again yesterday, a person complaining about another’s bad behavior, “She’s just doing it for attention. Ignore her.” I’ve heard this line a million times. Where did it ever even come from? It’s shaming, insulting, a put-down. No, no, no, no, no. We could stop seeing wanting

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